In recent decades, oral healthcare has shifted from curation to prevention. Preventive oral healthcare for children consists mainly of oral health education to improve health behaviors and clinical prevention such as fissure sealants, application of fluoride varnish, removal of supragingival plaque and dental polishing. In addition, the periodic clinical examination is an important preventive instrument. These 5 preventive interventions for children up to 12 years of age can be discussed using the principles of ‘appropriate care’. Appropriate care is an approach of the Dutch government to ensure the accessibility, quality and affordability of care in the Netherlands. Central to the approach are the effectiveness, efficiency and patient-centeredness of care. This article describes to what extent preventive oral healthcare meets these principles based on literature, care consumption data and recommendations from the clinical guidelines ‘Oral care for children: prevention and treatment of dental caries’ and the ‘Advice on Caries Prevention’ by the Ivory Cross, a Dutch scientific association for oral health. Appropriate oral healthcare is best served by care that is tailored to both the individual oral disease burden of the patient and their risk of disease as well as to the wishes of the patient.